Being a self harmer
Hi I am Aggelina 17 and I am from Greece..I'm dealing with depression,self harm,suicide thoughts and insomnia..I want you to know that you're not alone..I'm here for you whenever you need someone to talk to..Stay strong my loves }|{
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Anonymous asked: Hi, just wanted some advice. So I want to start self harming, I know its wrong but I have tried it before and it gave me a relief, but now things are stressful again and the urge is unbearable. I don't really know what to do, I know i shouldn't but I don't know what else to do. Any advice


Answer:

No honey please don’t start self harming..there’s nothing good about it..trust me..you’ll think that you relief yourself and at the same time you will hate yourself for destroying your own body..you won’t be able to wear short sleeves again and people will talk..they will start asking you why you always where long sleeves and you’ll say that you;re just cold..you’ll have to wash your underwear on your own because they will be covered in blood..you’ll spend your money on things to take care of your wounds..you’ll get sader and sader evryday..nothing will make you happy..I’ve been through this and trust me it was the worst period of my life!!I couldn’t go to sleep unless I cut..I was waking up in the middle of the night just to cut..I lost my sleep..Please sweety don’t get into this horrible situation..stay strong and fight for yourself!! }|{

Anonymous asked: Hi... I have cut before and at the time I thought it worked. It made me feel something. But now I feel guilty and embarrassed! I hate my body and I'm sure other people hate it too. The scars on my arms make me feel far more self conscious. I'm becoming paranoid about people asking me, I have dreams when they laugh in my face. I have lost all my friends recently and I can't stop thinking about them laughing at me. I have no one. I feel so alone. I'm repulsed by the way I look. Any advice?


Answer:

Don’t ever say that again honey!! you’re not alone I’m always here and I reaaly care about you..I know how it is being ashamed of your scars..my advice is to talk to a doctor and stop cutting..I know it’s gonna be hard but trust me it will be worth  it!! Lastly,don’t be ashamed of your scars..you should be proud of them..It sounds kind weird but it’s true..they’re your strength..they are who you are..they show that there was a time that not everything was alright and you felt very very sad..it’s normal honey!! just stop it..let past (bad) addictions be your friend and you guidance for what to not to again..stay strong I love you }|{

Anonymous asked: I might have vandalized a bathroom door with a quote from you... :) Love your page! Helps me know I'm not alone.. Sincerely, The Puncher


Answer:

Oh hahah whuch quote was that?? I’m so happy that you feel like this because I want everyone to know that you’re not alone I’m always here stay strong }|{

Well I feel so lucky to have all of you guys..you are amazing!!all of you..I keep receiving messages that give me strength and you say all these kind and love words and you make me feel loved..thank you!!thank you so much!!I needed so much to feel loved..stay strong loves and I’m always here for you all }|{

Anonymous asked: Hey. I'm a self harmer. I love your blog. I'm also depressed and have insomnia. I wanted to ask. Do you ever think or have you ever thought about stopping? Many people tell me to stop, but I don't want to... Is that... Normal?


Answer:

Yes this is absolutely normal as long as you have depression,.when I first went to the psychiatrist I was so afraid that I may be healthy and happy again..I was feeling like a part of me will be lost..and I hated that..I think I was just safe feeling so sad that everything was like a secure guard around me..I  think that I was just afraid of getting hurt again..Don’t be afraid..fight for your life..I can’t assure you that you won’t get hurt but it’s part of living..fight for your happiness..I know you can because I’m sure that your and amazing person and you’re so much better than those scars!! stay strong my love and fight!! I’m always here..love you }|{

Anonymous asked: Hey... I'm a somewhat self harmer.. I punch my legs till they turn black and blue... Am I the only one who does this?.. I need help, i know, but my parents only think it's a mental-disorder-thing and just crank up the meds... My school dismisses the loud banging in the bathrooms as lovers, the pipework, or other things; when really it's me, beating myself senseless.. I know no one cares, but I just had to get that out of my system.. Sorry.


Answer:

No honey..don’t ever say that again..I care!! I care very much for you!! zno you’re not the only one doing this..a lot of people do it and it is concidered self harm..anyway..ask for help..if your parents can’t understand then talk to a teacher or a school counselor or someone older that you trust..or do what I want..Go to the doctor alone without telling anyone and see what is really going on with your emotions and your soul..just remember that you are not alone ..I’m always here..stay strong }|{

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